Understanding of Grief: Children aged 3-5 years:

Concept:

• Do not understand the permanence of death; sees it as temporary and reversible
• May think that their loved one is sleeping, or on a trip
• May wonder what will happen if another family member dies
• Repetitive with questions about the death

How to help:

• Physical contact and reassurance
• Encourage children to play and have fun
• Give simple, honest answers to questions
• Answer repetitive questions gently and with patience
• Allow safe ways to express feelings
• Include them in the mourning process

If you are looking to support a grieving child, have questions or concerns, we are available to help. Please call us at the office at (231) 947-6453 or by email at GoodGrief@MyMichaelsPlace.net and talk with one of our grief support staff.